Belmont Citizen-Herald — September 19, 2019
When’s the right time? That’s a question we never had to deal with. Our daughter grew up in an era that preceded “smart phones.” Given that the IPhone was not released in the United States until 2007, my wife and I were never presented with the question of how young is too young for a child to possess a “smart phone.” Today, however, life is different.
I readily admit that I may simply sound like the old fogey that I am. My nieces, nephews, and indeed, my daughter, do not hesitate to suggest that I am “out of touch with contemporary thought and activities.” So be it. I plead guilty. Nonetheless, I grew up in a medium-sized city (250,000 people). And, I grew up in an era where my two brothers and I would leave home on our bicycles in the morning with firm instructions from Mom to “be home for dinner.” The extent of our “screen time” was a half-hour of Yogi Bear before dinner, and, of course, a Saturday morning of cartoons, Sky King, The Lone Ranger, and a horse named Fury.
So, it’s no surprise that life has changed, right? That’s the nature of things. Nonetheless, some Belmont residents believe that the availability of some technology devices in today’s world should not be in the hands of younger kids. More specifically, the “Wait for 8th” movement advocates not making “smart phones” available to our kids until those kids reach the eighth grade. And, I have to say, I tend to agree with them.
According to the “Wait for 8th” website,” “playing outdoors, spending time with friends, reading books and hanging out with family is happening a lot less to make room for hours of snap chatting, instagramming, and catching up on You Tube. With children spending anywhere between 3 to 7 hours daily in front of a screen, many childhood essentials are pushed aside for online amusement.” And that’s not healthy, emotionally, physically, or from a developmental perspective.
The “Wait for 8th” campaign reports that “Studies show that the use of smartphones and other portable devices with screens affects the quantity and quality of sleep in children and teens. Adolescents are likely restless because they anticipate receiving texts and social media messages from friends, which affects their nighttime routine. Some children even wake up in the middle of the night to check texts or social media. Sleep disturbance in childhood is known to have adverse effects on health. . .” Moreover, the campaign says, “Children are not emotionally equipped to navigate tricky social media waters at such an early age. . .Research shows that the more time someone uses social media the more likely they are to be depressed.” Another report demonstrated that “adolescents’ psychological well-being decreased the more hours a week they spent on screens.”
Accordingly, the “Wait for 8th” campaign promotes parents taking a “pledge.” Signing the pledge involves a promise not to give your child a smartphone until at least 8th grade. That does not mean that kids would be denied any phone. Many parents who sign the pledge find that a basic phone that just calls and texts provides the security links that they seek. Nonetheless, a basic phone does not present the same dangers as a smartphone at a young age.
The “Wait for 8th” movement does not try to tell you how to parent your child. If you do not share concerns about access to smartphones, you can ignore the campaign. However, if you do share concerns, the campaign provides that as soon as 10 families from your child’s grade and school sign the pledge, the campaign shares the names of those signing the pledge within that group. The belief is that such a social support network is helpful to parents with concerns.
The “Wait for 8th” campaign seems to have a place in Belmont. A more public ongoing conversation about parental practices with the use of smartphones by young children is merited within our community. Parents can find more information about the campaign at waituntil8th.org.